Raising Hell
I must say that the combination of an angry outburst of mine and the lack of too many opportunities to get back on line definitely spurred quite the reaction. Perhaps a lesson in not writing things when you are angry and or tired. Or at least not publishing them until you have the chance to review them again.
I don't regret posting the previous post, even if some of the stuff put out there was a little less than sensible. I got too significant a reaction to regret having started it. I do regret that MC and Lisa both apparently feel I am laying some considerable blame on them. Lisa, I am sorry to have angered you as much as I apparently did. We will have to continue (and straighten out) this conversation offline sometime soon, when we have time to make sure we are not being misunderstood. MC, I would be sorry to have angered you, if I didn't do it so frequently that it was bound to happen.
I will clarify in regard to that previous post, though. Was I angry about something when I started writing it? Yes. I frequently am of late. Was I particularly angry about anything that I addressed? No. I think, if assumptions are put on hold for a moment, and those of you who know me look at it again, you will find that I was primarily engaging in some address at to the relevance of what I was writing. The hope being that people might respond as to whether they wanted me to continue in any of the elements of what I write about. I do see where the occasional comment within could be read as spurred by anger, rather than the self deprecating nature intended. Undoubtedly influenced, as I said, by the background state of mind at the time.
Still, all in all, I guess I shouldn't be too disappointed at having kicked the hornets nest. It is good to know that some of you are still willing to kick me when I get obnoxious. The latter is an occasionally inevitable part of life, or something close to it.
I don't regret posting the previous post, even if some of the stuff put out there was a little less than sensible. I got too significant a reaction to regret having started it. I do regret that MC and Lisa both apparently feel I am laying some considerable blame on them. Lisa, I am sorry to have angered you as much as I apparently did. We will have to continue (and straighten out) this conversation offline sometime soon, when we have time to make sure we are not being misunderstood. MC, I would be sorry to have angered you, if I didn't do it so frequently that it was bound to happen.
I will clarify in regard to that previous post, though. Was I angry about something when I started writing it? Yes. I frequently am of late. Was I particularly angry about anything that I addressed? No. I think, if assumptions are put on hold for a moment, and those of you who know me look at it again, you will find that I was primarily engaging in some address at to the relevance of what I was writing. The hope being that people might respond as to whether they wanted me to continue in any of the elements of what I write about. I do see where the occasional comment within could be read as spurred by anger, rather than the self deprecating nature intended. Undoubtedly influenced, as I said, by the background state of mind at the time.
Still, all in all, I guess I shouldn't be too disappointed at having kicked the hornets nest. It is good to know that some of you are still willing to kick me when I get obnoxious. The latter is an occasionally inevitable part of life, or something close to it.
3 Comments:
You didn;t anger me at all, just confused me because I am always trying to decide if whatever I have written would be welcome if I clicked the "save" button. I guess I get so used to "I'm probably pushing it with this post, but whatever, I'll fight it out if I have to" that I was dumbstruck when I got a "Why doesn't anyone post or argue with me?" response.
Steve, when we venture into other people's lives as we do in blogs, we have to expect to find the occasional obnoxiousness. :-)
Your blog is honest (I think) and I'd rather read somebody getting a little cranky and pouting sometimes (yes I said that)than to read some fake persona designed to only look and sound pretty. I consider you a friend and I'd miss you if you went away. Besides, I don't get along well with people who never get cranky. I think they must be aliens.
what Cindy said...
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